Hey guys! Welcome back. It’s Monday and time for some real motivation. We all feel like we’re failing at times or we feel like things just can’t go our way. We get in our heads and feel as though we can’t recover or we will never succeed. The important thing to remember is it’s in your head.

You can’t always control or change the things that happen to you, but you can change the way you think about them. There are times in our lives where we struggle and we don’t always get the end result we wish for. But you have to move on and learn from that. There is something to be learned from every situation, good or bad. No one ever said life was easy or fair. So you just have to do your best and hope it all works out in the end. And if it doesn’t, you learn from that and move on.

You only fail if you don’t see the lesson in what happened. If something goes wrong or you have a setback, there is a lesson to be learned. And if you learned that, you ultimately were rewarded. If you didn’t learn it, then you failed. You learn more from failure than you ever will from success.

Failure is all in your head. If you choose to see the negative, you won’t get very far in life. But if you see the positives, no matter what happened, you succeeded. Maybe you didn’t get what you needed or what you thought you deserved. But if you learned something, you should rejoice in that. Go through life with grace and sincerity. It will get you far.

When something doesn’t go your way or you make a mistake, that should motivate your drive to succeed. If you know what it feels like to be down and out, you will push yourself harder next time. You are not perfect, and that’s not something you should strive to be because you will only be disappointed in the end. But you should strive to be the best you you can be. Because there is only one you in the world and that is all the world needs. So even when you struggle, remember that you have one life and one chance to make the best of it. So don’t dwell on the setbacks.

The reason failure is a mindset and not reality is because you can try again. Whatever it was that happened: a failed job, relationship, or anything really try again. Maybe not necessarily with the same job or person, but start over. If it’s what you really desire go out and find it. Don’t give up the first time.

So yes, we all fail. But it’s a part of life. And it’s a mindset. You can choose to be positive and learn from it and move on. Or you can choose to be negative and dwell on what has happened and how unfair it is. The choice is completely yours. These bad things will happen to you because you don’t have a perfect life. You can’t control anything. But you can control how you react. So choose happy. Choose to be inspired and encouraged. Don’t let the struggles and failures bring you down.

That is all for this one. I hope you enjoyed it. Please like it if you did. Also, comment below your thoughts and failure and help inspire others today. Don’t forget to follow before you leave and I will see you next time.