Hey guys! Welcome back. I hope you are having an excellent weekend. Complicated relationships aren’t easy to describe. Nor are they easy to justify. Being in a complicated, confusing relationship is hard enough without having to get others to understand. However, if you can’t explain it, and if you don’t know why you are in the relationship, is it the right one to be in?
We hold on because there are so many memories and a level of comfort regardless of the relationship. You hold on to someone because after a certain amount of time, it’s not easy to let go. Regardless of whether he is a good person or not, sometimes the relationship can get out of hand where both parties are suffering. And then when you finally decide to let go it’s so much harder than you thought it would be. Maybe you still love this person and your life fits perfectly with theirs. Maybe that’s why it’s so hard to let go. But if that’s the case, why is it so complicated?
It’s complicated because the two of you have grown into completely different people. You want different things. You can’t find a compromise that works for the both of you. You are generally unhappy because one of you isn’t getting what they want or need. Maybe it’s complicated because your lifestyles are completely different. Sometimes relationships fall apart because you put all of your energy into making the wrong relationship work instead of focusing on the things that truly matter. You begin to realize that you are changing and you want different things, through no fault of your own.
So this complicated relationship isn’t worth it. Instead of trying to make this dead-end relationship work, you need to focus on yourself. The only way to be happy and healthy is to give yourself a chance to learn on your own. Being alone is scary, but sometimes it is the best thing you can do for yourself. It gives you a chance to figure things out and do what you have always wanted to do. You have new independence and can do things on your own terms. It’s truly liberating.
It’s not worth holding on to because of the history you share. The past may be great, but if the present isn’t the future may not be as well. “All great things must come to an end” is the best way to look at this. Don’t be unhappy simply because you are too afraid to end. Be honest with yourself and do the right thing. Life is too short to stay somewhere you will regret one day. Break free and learn to love yourself. The right person will come along.
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