It gets better. I know it’s a phrase we hear all the time, but it really does get better. Your worth is not measured by how you feel right now. The pain you feel now won’t last forever. One day you will move on and life will be easy again. You are not your pain. You are strong and you will get back up again.
It takes time. I don’t know specifics because everyone is different and responds to heartache differently, but with time all wounds heal. It’s not easy, but time will help. You are allowed to be sad. You are allowed to cry and hurt. You are entitled to your emotions and owe no one an explanation.
But remember, life doesn’t stop when you do. Time will pass. The longer you avoid moving on, the more time you will waste. Life is a precious thing. It is worth more that any one person. You are worth far more than someone willing to break your heart. Don’t waste your time on someone who chose not to give you theirs.
You deserve to be happy. And I have faith that you will be. Go chase your dreams and the right people will come along. You can’t force things that simply aren’t there. Most things happen by chance and circumstance. So live your life on purpose and things will naturally fall into place. Go where you feel called and nothing will stand in your way.
You are not alone. There are plenty of people in the world going through exactly what you are going through. And there are people out there who can help you and support you. So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back out there. Your life is precious. Don’t waste it on things that don’t matter. Love yourself and watch the magic happen.