Hey guys! Welcome back. A little over a month ago I went on my very first Tinder date. If you don’t know what Tinder is it is a dating app. Needless to say the date didn’t go exactly well. I had no expectations going into this because I had never gone on a Tinder date before. But I met the guy and decided to see where it went.
Let me just say that dating anyone on a campus as small as mine is dangerous and scary because if it doesn’t work it’s awkward if things don’t work out. But I had never seen this guy around campus, so I figured if it didn’t work it would be alright because I probably wouldn’t see him again anyway. NOW I SEE HIM ALL THE FREAKING TIME!!!!!!! And it’s always weird and awkward. We haven’t talked since then, but seeing him makes me feel a little on edge.
But anyway the actual date was a fail. We walked around campus and talked which was fine other than the fact that I came to the conclusion that we have nothing in common and there was no real connection. But I continued with the date to see if maybe something was there hiding, waiting to be discovered. So we went back to my room to watch TV. I figured it was safe because the walls are thin and you can hear everything that happens in that building. Plus my roommate was in the room three feet away in bed. I was under the impression that I was safe.
Visitation for males in our building ends at midnight. We were in my room for about an hour and everything was fine. And then at around 11:45 p.m. he started touching me. It was pretty innocent. Nothing scandalous or anything happened. And then he kissed me. Which was fine other than the fact that I felt absolutely nothing. But then he started grabbing parts of my body that he should not have been grabbing. Especially considering we had just met. At 11:55 (five minutes until he had to be out of the building) he was trying to have sex with me. Remember, my roommate is in the bed next to me asleep.
It was completely uncomfortable for me and I didn’t know what to do. So I literally dragged him out of the room and basically never really spoke to him again. But it was a date gone wrong and wish I had handled the whole situation differently but I’m not the most graceful girl in the world. It was just a really weird situation for me.
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