Hey guys! Welcome back. I think we all struggle with wanting to be perfect or be someone else completely. We are never really happy with who we are and the decisions we have made because we have a tendency to feel like we are missing something or we made a turn down the wrong path at some point. We have this never-ending battle within ourselves because we aren’t content or satisfied with our lives.
That has to change. We need to learn how to accept who we are and work towards a better life. If you aren’t happy, you can change. There is no reason not to. However, if you are happy with where you then don’t feel the need to change for someone else. No one is perfect and you can’t force yourself to be. You can work towards being better or being satisfied, but you will never be perfect, nor will you always be happy.
Your goal in life should be to be the best version of yourself, whatever that may entail. Surround yourself with people who love you and support you. Work towards success and your goals and aspirations. Be vulnerable and allow yourself to feel. Most importantly, allow yourself to make mistakes because that is how you grow and learn.
I know what it feels like to be afraid to be yourself. I’m still afraid sometimes. I don’t like being judged or ridiculed no matter who it is coming from. I used to think I would rather pretend to someone else and be liked than be myself and be hated. But that is wrong. It’s lying. I should be able to be myself and know that no matter what I will be accepted and loved. I shouldn’t feel like I can’t be who I truly am.
I don’t know how to be the best version of myself yet because I don’t really know who I am. All I know is that I am working to figure that out and I think you should too. It’s scary to think about the future and where we will end up. But I have faith that if you are yourself and you are the best you can be that you are special and important. You deserve to be valued and cared for by people who know you and accept you.
Life is too short to spend it living someone else’s life. Live your own life and accept the beauty that you are. Know that you are special and your life is worth living. No one can live your life or be you better than you can. Yes you are imperfect, but God made us all that way. You were not made to be perfect, you were made to be you. That is the most important thing. God loves you just the way you are and no matter what anyone else says that is all that matters.
Never let anyone tell you or make you feel like your life is meaningless. You are significant to the world. You are here for a reason, even if you aren’t sure what that reason is yet. Just keep living and making mistakes and it will come to you. No matter what, don’t give up. Let life happen and great things will come your way.
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