In today’s world we are always comparing ourselves to other people. Whether they are famous, someone we know, or someone who we casually walk past on our way to class, there is always someone we would rather be. But at the same time, we also have a tendency to judge other girls for their morals or habits or how they spend their Saturday nights. And in some ways maybe we have that right because they are probably judging us as well. But there are some things that don’t make you better than someone else. Here are six.

1. The fact that you don’t drink or go to parties.

You don’t have to drink or go to parties to have fun. It’s fine if you don’t. But some people do and just because they do doesn’t make them bad people or any less than you. That is a personal preference and one that should not be ridiculed. It’s fine to go and it’s fine to not go. That is a decision only you can make.

2. The fact that you don’t swear.

Some people don’t which is fine. However, I don’t see where that makes you any better of a person. Just because you don’t say it doesn’t mean you aren’t thinking it. And thinking it could be considered just as bad. So you can’t think you are better than someone else just because you watch the words you say.

3. If you don’t wear makeup.

Not wearing makeup in no way makes you a better person. It may mean that you have more confidence or you’re okay with how you look, or it could mean that you are simply too lazy to get up and put it on. Regardless it doesn’t make you a bad person for not wearing it, but it certainly doesn’t make you better than those that do.

4. If you aren’t in a sorority.

My college doesn’t have sororities and I can’t say if I would ever join one or not. But I don’t think there is anything wrong with choosing to be in one. I think it’s a great opportunity to make friends and feel a sense of community. It’s not all bad.

5. If you dress more conservatively.

Who cares how conservatively you dress? How does what you wear make you a good or bad person? I don’t think it matters.

6. How sexually active you are.

Whether you do it a lot or never at all does not determine your worth. We shouldn’t shame girls on how much or how little they have sex. The shaming happens on both ends. It doesn’t show your worth as a human based on how many guys you have slept with. There is more to life than that.

Thank you so much for reading! I hope you enjoyed this. Please like it if you did. Let me know in the comments if you agree with my list or if there is anything you would add. Don’t forget to follow before you leave if you have not already and I hope to see you next time!