Hey guys! Welcome back. I have learned through the last couple of years that sometimes you have to be selfish. It’s not in everyone’s character to be selfish and say no to people. But I think there are times that is necessary and acceptable to be a little selfish even when other people don’t approve. College is one of those time.
College opened my eyes to so many things. It has taught me that it’s okay to change your mind. It’s your life and your decision. What you choose to do now could impact the rest of your life. So you need to make sure it’s the right one. Don’t be afraid to be selfish and change your mind a bunch. It’s a common thing that most college students do.
Another thing it’s okay to be selfish about is your friends. You don’t have to be friends with everyone. Being friendly and being friends is two totally different things. Make sure the people you are spending time with are worth your time. Don’t fall in a trap of drama and bad friends. Find people you are comfortable with.
Another thing you need to be selfish about is your relationships. Dating in college can be a great thing, but it could also lead you down some rough paths. It’s okay to say no to people and not go on dates with people you don’t feel comfortable with. It’s okay not to go on dates all the time and to be single in college.
Lastly, and maybe most importantly, it’s perfectly fine to be selfish with your time. You have classes, homework, maybe a job, sleeping, eating, and basic hygiene to keep up with. Keep your other engagements light and focus on the things that are the most important. Having a social life is important, but remember why you are here and what you are working for.
That’s all I have for this one. Thank you all so much for reading! Please like this if you enjoyed it. Also, don’t forget to follow before you leave if you have not already and I hope to see you next time!