Hey guys! Welcome back. One of my biggest mistakes is convincing myself that I have to have it all together. I feel like I have to know what I want, have a plan, know where I’m going, and all kinds of other things that you are “supposed to know”. I find myself being envious of other people who know exactly what they want and they seem to have it all together. The truth is, even though people may seem like they have it all together, in reality they probably don’t.
I feel like there is at least one aspect of everyone’s life that they don’t have a clue as to what is going on. For some people it is school, for others it is their job, for some it’s relationships, and for others it’s something completely different. If you are like me it’s a healthy blend of everything. Every time I think I have it all figured out and I know what I want something happens that changes everything. I realized that no matter how hard I try if the timing isn’t right things aren’t going to work out. I keep trying to convince myself that I need to figure it out. I need to know what the plan is. I can’t keep changing my mind. I can’t keep going back and forth. I have to make a decision.
I have learned in the past few months that if things aren’t meant to be, they won’t be. It doesn’t matter how hard I try to convince myself or how much I want it to work out. If it’s not meant to work for me, it’s not going to. I don’t have to have it all figured out because in the end where I am supposed to be will work out. I will find my way no matter how lost I feel right now. Life changes daily and I change daily.
As college students we are put under a lot of pressure. We are expected to have everything figured out and know exactly what we want out of life. It’s a big, important decision that should not be rushed. So don’t feel like you have to have it all figured out right now. Change your mind as often as you need to. Try new things and see if they work for you. Keep growing and changing because that’s how you will find your way. Keep working on your plan and your goals and your dreams. Let it work itself out. Keep living your life and I promise it will work itself out.
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