Hey guys! Welcome back. This is kind of an open letter to myself that I thought other people might be able to benefit from. I hope you enjoy!
I have tried dating sites and dating apps. I have tried them more than once. There were a few times I actually connected with someone only for them to let me down. I know that it isn’t such a big deal since they clearly weren’t soul mates or anything, but I still felt a little heartbroken. I always feel as though when I meet someone it will be great. I get attached very quickly.
I recently learned something I should have learned a long time ago. I can’t keep searching. The right guy will come around eventually. That doesn’t mean that I will never give anyone else a chance. It simply means I can’t use artificial, contemporary ways of finding him. It will happen when it is time.
It’s sometimes difficult not knowing if you will ever find that person. It’s hard waiting and wishing for that day to arrive. But at the same time there is a level of peace that comes with knowing that the day will come and you will be ready. You can focus on yourself and grow into the person you want to be.
It’s kind of amazing when you let go of feeling like you have to be with someone. Some people do find lasting relationships on dating sites. I just don’t feel like it’s for me. I think fate and God are going to take care of that for me. When the time comes I will be ready.
Thank you so much for reading! I hope you enjoyed this. Please like it if you did. Don’t forget to follow if you are not already and I hope to see you next time!