Hey guys! Welcome back. My birthday was yesterday and I turned 21. It was a pretty good birthday for the most part. It wasn’t perfect because it started and ended pretty bad, but the middle was good. In light of my birthday I want to share with you some things I learned this year.

The first thing I learned is not everything is a lesson for you. Sometimes when bad things happen to us or we get hurt we are quick to question what we did to deserve that. We try to find the lesson in it and figure out why it happened. But I have learned that sometime what we go through is not for us. It’s a part of someone else’s story and we are simply there. We are effected by it, but there may not be a lesson for us. The lesson may belong to the other person.

You can’t trust everyone. I knew this before, but I learned a hard truth this year. Not everyone really cares about you. They don’t always appreciate what you do for them even though you spend a good amount of time or money. They simply don’t care. So I have learned that I can’t trust people who say they care. It needs to be proven.

Not everyone can keep a secret. Gossip is a real thing and some people really love to spread it. I learned that this year. Sometimes things you say get taken out of context and become a real problem when people start spreading lies about you. You just can’t talk to some people no matter what.

God will find a way. He has always helped me when He knew I needed it and He especially did this year. So many amazing things have happened this year and I owe it all to God. All the friends I have made, the amazing opportunities, and every experience that got me where I am today. I have enjoyed being 20 so much and I can’t wait to see what 21 holds.

I have loved blogging so much and I know that many of you have enjoyed my blog. I hope you can take the time right now to comment what you have loved most and what you want to see changed or done in the future. I want to grow my blog and I need your help. So please comment below.

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