Hey guys! Welcome back. Today I wanted to talk to you about the future. More specifically, my future. This may be super short or super long. It just depends on how long I decide to go on. Basically what this is is me just talking about my future and all the feels I’m feeling because of it. I’m sure there are a lot of you who are also overwhelmed by the future and everything that is going on in your life, so hopefully we can shine some light for one another.

My issue is that I start overthinking about things that haven’t even happened yet. I start trying to find solutions to problems that don’t even exist. And it doesn’t make any sense to me. Like obviously I can’t answer a question that hasn’t presented itself yet. But anyway, that a big struggle for me. I get anxious about things that don’t even exist. Let me know if you are the same way. I would love to know I’m not the only one.

This past week has put a lot of things into perspective for me. Like everything that I have been struggling with has all worked out. But the future is overwhelming. Mostly because I honestly just don’t know how it’s going to work out. I don’t know what will happen or anything. So it’s kind of scary to think about.

Planning for a future that seems so far away is difficult. I just want to know that I am going to be okay. But of course, I can’t guarantee that. I just like to have structure and stability. But the future is messy. It’s uncertain. It’s coming whether I like it or not. But one thing I have realized is that all I can do is focus on where I am right now. I need to work on the person I am right now and allow myself to grow.

Most of all I just want to be successful. When I fail I feel disappointed. So success is something that I really strive for. I know that everyone makes mistakes and I have made a lot of them, but that’s okay. It’s all a part of the process. I need to learn to let my fears and anxieties go and just live my life. If not I will always be stuck living in the future or the past instead of the present. I need to enjoy the time I have and understand that what is coming is going to come. There is no real way to prepare for that.

I don’t know what the future holds, but I hope it’s something great. I hope in the end I am successful and that I keep growing. I hope I can be happy and content. And I am so thankful and happy that I get to share this unknowable future with all of you. It means so much that you choose to be here.

I put so much effort in everything I do that I sometimes spread myself too thin. I’m not sure what I will do in the future, but I hope that I can continue putting out content for you guys, whether it’s on YouTube or on the blog. Thank you so much for stopping by! I hope you enjoyed this. Please like it if you did. Comment below what you would like to see from me in the future. Don’t forget to follow before you leave if you have not already and I hope to see you next time!

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4 thoughts on “Coffee Chat: Feeling Overwhelmed About The Future

  1. I planned what I wanted my future to look like and was stuck in my disappointment when things got changed. I felt so out of control. The future is full of unknowns. No matter how much planning goes on, we can’t plan for every situation. I have recently come to realize that even if I can’t control the future, I don’t need to let it control me. I too am an over thinker which has been my downfall. Being young helps keep things in perspective and helps me to know that I have so much life ahead of me. Being 25 is not old and does not take anything from me. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings.

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