Hey guys! Welcome back. Today I wanted to do a relationship post. These are highly requested and today I wanted to do something a little different. I wanted to share with you the things I need before I even consider getting married. These are things are absolutely essential and things I am striving for in any of my future relationships. So here are ten things I need to do before I get married.

1. Establish a true acceptance of my partner.

Whoever my partner is, I need to truly accept them. I need to be able to accept their good qualities and their bad. No one is perfect and no one can live a perfect life, but I need to be able to accept someone for who they are before I can consider marrying them. I need to know as much about them and their past as I can. Because if I can’t accept them, things won’t go very smoothly.

2. Rid myself of my immaturities.

Like I said, no one is perfect, and that includes me. I need to work on letting so of some of my insecurities and issues that I have before I can get married. I need to work on my own negative traits. I’m sure they will never all go away, but I can work on them while I can and work on bettering myself.

3. Love who I am and have true confidence.

I have come a long way, as has my confidence. However it is still not exactly where I want it to be. So I want to work on loving myself and taking care of myself. That way I can give myself fully and confidently to whomever comes along that I consider marrying and being with forever.

4. Feel like I have, and will continue to, follow my dreams.

When I am in a relationship, I never want to feel like my partner is holding me back or holding me down in any way. I want to feel as though I am able to live my life and follow my dreams alongside the person I am with. It is important that I am with someone who supports and encourages me.

5. Let go of unfair expectations of myself.

I often find myself having unrealistic expectations of myself. I expect to be perfect and not make mistakes. I struggle with accepting when things don’t go as planned. It’s important for me to let go of that mindset and just live my life. I need to learn to have more realistic expectations of myself so I can be authentic for my partner.

6. Understand that I don’t need to rush any stage of life.

I am still young. I am only 22. There is no need to rush into any stage of life. God has perfect timing and when it is time for things to happen, they will happen. All I can do is continue to grow and work on myself and know that when the time comes, I will know and I will be ready.

7. Understand what I require from life for true happiness.

I need to figure out what is going to make me happy in life. Money, success, a family, or anything else that brings me happiness and joy. I need to know what I require and what I value most in this world so I can start working to make that a reality. It is important for me to know what I need so I am not depending on someone else.

8. Stop making decisions out of fear.

Oh man, I can’t tell you how many times I have made some really bad decisions just because I was scared. I really need to stop doing it. Whether it is deciding to do something because I am afraid or deciding not to because I am afraid, I need to stop letting fear control my decision-making process.

9. Understand the importance of understanding.

I like to think of myself as a pretty understanding person. But I think sometimes I am understanding to a fault. So I need to learn the importance of understanding and what it means to be overly understanding. I need to trust myself and know when things are not okay and communicate that.

10. To feel loved and to love.

And finally, a very important thing that I need before I get married is to feel loved by the person I am with and to love them back. And I mean real love, not just puppy love. I need to be able to love them for who they are and I need to feel that they love me for who I am. I need to know that there is a solid foundation for the future to come.

Thank you so much for stopping by! I hope you enjoyed this. Please like it if you did. Let me know in the comments what you want to see from me next. Don’t forget to follow before you leave if you have not already and I hope to see you next time!

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