Hey guys! Welcome back. Today I wanted to talk about about dating, and more specifically dating a mama’s boy. Everyone says you should date a guy who is good to his mother because that means he will also be good to you. And in some ways that is true. However, there are some important things you need to be aware of if you are dating a mama’s boy.
You won’t be the only woman in his life.
And you certainly won’t be the most important woman in his life. You will never hold a candle to his mother. Take it from me that they will never let him out of their sight for long before they are calling and texting for him to go be with her. It’s even worse if they live with their mom. So just know that you won’t be the most important person in their lives 95% of the time.
He won’t be independent.
He probably won’t have his own place to live. He either won’t know how to do basic household chores or he will simply choose not to. He won’t be independent enough to hold a steady relationship with you. He will be used to having everything done for him, so there’s a good chance he might not even have a job. And if you do enter a relationship with him, he will expect you to take care of him the same way.
He will compare you to her.
When it comes to anything from the way you cook to the way you will clean, there will always be a comparison. It is pretty unfair for him to compare you to the woman who gave him life, but he will do it and he won’t see the problem with it. So it’s up to you to decide if that’s something that you can live with and get used to having in your life. Because it’s not going away.
You will feel left out.
There is no getting in the middle of a mama’s boy and his mama. So unfortunately that means that you will feel sidelined a lot of the time. They will do things without you, make plans without you, and force you feeling like you don’t have a relationship. And God forbid you decide to get married and have your own thoughts on the wedding. Because mama will try to take over everything.
But it’s not all bad.
A mama’s boy knows how to treat women and he is less likely to do something you don’t want him doing. He will be respectful, caring, and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. So even though dating a mama’s boy sounds like a pain in the butt, just keep in mind that it’s not all bad and there are worse people out there that you could date. You just have to make certain sacrifices.
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