Hey guys! Welcome back. I am completely the type of person who gets attached to someone too easily. Literally every person that comes into my life I get attached to rather quickly. So it makes it really hurt when they let me down or leave me. So today I wanted to talk about the harsh reality of getting attached to people too soon. Because it happens. I know many of you probably struggle with the exact same thing. So I am here to share my thoughts with you.
The fact is, if you do find yourself getting attached too easily, it can scare the other person or cause them to back off. You let your guard down and start to really trust someone only to have them run away. Then you are left to pick up the pieces and you just aren’t sure what to do. And it always seems to happen suddenly. One day everything is fine and you’re both in it and then the next they stop texting as much or calling as often. And you are left wondering what went wrong.
But the truth is, it usually isn’t anyone’s fault. It doesn’t mean that you did anything wrong or that they did anything wrong. It just means that you got too comfortable before they had a chance to back away and it caused them pull back. Sometimes it happens and it just means that you weren’t meant to be. Getting attached easily isn’t always a bad thing because it means that you are able to open your heart and feel intense emotions without getting scared. However, not everyone is like that. So you have to be smart about it and try to get to know a person before you start expressing how you feel. If not, they will get spooked and pull back.
You don’t have to change who you are, but you also can’t expect anyone to change who they are. Everyone feels things at a different pace. So you just have to be willing to wait until they are ready. If not you will find yourself being left a lot. Trust me, I’ve been there more times than I can count. You just have to figure out how to read people. Figure out how to hold yourself back before it’s too much. You will save yourself from a lot of heartache if you do. It’s a tough pill to swallow sometimes and it’s difficult to figure out. But once you do, you will feel so much better and relationships will go a lot smoother.
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